Archives for June 2010

3 Negative Traits Paralyzing Success and Happiness

Don't quack like a duck, soar like an eage. - Ken BlanchardWhat separates a successful, happy and contented person from the rest of the crowd, is its attitude.  People who have ability and do not use that ability represent one of the real tragedies of life. Are you that kind of person with ability but comprises of attitudes and traits that paralyzes your life? In this article, learn the 3 negative traits you need to avoid so you can achieve happiness, fulfillment and success in your life.INDECISION  Most people don’t get what they want because they don’t know what they want. We hear a lot of people complaining endlessly about their life. May it be about their work, co-workers, bosses, children, parents, spouses, partners, siblings, friends, government, poverty, stress, ill-health, and all other stuff they could fill in their “I don’t like” or “I hate” list.  We have numerous negative things to include in our “I hate” list but did we ever think of our “I like” or … [Read more...]

How Failure and Suffering Can Positively Change your Life?

All of us have gone through failures and sufferings, it may weigh differently, but for sure we've gone thru it one way or another.  And whenever failure and suffering comes our way, we search for meaning and reason why it has to happen.Don't be annoyed with yourself 'cause you can't stop asking why because it is perfectly normal. However, the best way to live out failure and suffering is to stop asking why it has to happen.Once you repeatedly stop asking why, the acceptance process comes in.  And at acceptance stage, you will begin to ask what and how.   That is, what will you do next and how you will do it?I've used to fear failure and suffering.  And most people do.   My personal reason was because I do not like it when people look down on me.  I've always strived to be at my best and I'm unsatisfied if I'm not.  At this time, I still strive to be my best but the difference is I’m not afraid of failure and suffering as I've used to.If you wonder why and how, it’s … [Read more...]