10 Simple Ways to Live in the Moment

Each morning we are born again, what we do today is what matters most. ~ BuddhaToday, I heard a surprising and saddening news, a familiar person died. Despite that yesterday she was very much okay. Death is something that is sure to happen, and yet we still are surprised when it do happens. The news reminded me an important life principle, that is to live in the moment. Most of us are not living in the moment. Most of the time, we either think ahead in the future or can't move on from the past. We neglect to see that what we have guaranteed is today. I am guilty of this as well. I'm a type of person who think and plan ahead in the future, sacrificing today for a better future. And there are some things in my past that I find it hard to totally let go of. I have been improving this and started practicing a more balanced life, wherein I think and prepare for the future or reminisce past memories, but I'm in the look in ensuring I'm still living and making the most of the present … [Read more...]

Have a Break

The greatest gift you can give yourself is a little bit of your own attention. ~ Anthony J D'Angelo Sometimes we get too busy taking care of our responsibilities at home, in our work or business, and in our community, that we lose time and attention to ourselves. We are always pre occupied and hurried to do things that we rarely have time to rest or have a break. Time flew by and you wake up realising you haven't live or accomplish anything worthwhile. I have felt such feeling of restlessness and lack of accomplished tasks. Where I am always busy working yet nothing much changes in my life. Such situation then leads me to frustration and unhappiness.Do You Need a Break? Depending on your working orientation, but if you find yourself asking if you need a break, most probably you do. Because thinking of having a break and you don't is already stressful enough that if you don't may only further your feeling of restlessness and anxiety.Too Busy for a Break? Having a break … [Read more...]

How to Develop Positive Attitude?

Every day, we deal with many life stress and problems that can bring us bad moods or feelings. Oftentimes, these moods turn into negative attitude which shows in our facial expression or with the way we speak. I, too, have struggled to keep a positive attitude in the midst of life stress and chaos. Sometimes it even leads to depression which retains me from enjoying life.In my family, most people are idealist and pessimist. So growing up, I was accustomed to negative thinking and feeling. It became my habit to see the negative things rather than look at the bright side. This kind of mentality made it hard for me to make friends and build good relationship with people. It also made it hard for me to get contented with my life. I was always looking for reasons to feel unhappy with my life by looking at what I don’t have instead of being grateful for what I do have. As such, it was hard for me to focus on succeeding because my negative attitude always comes up which leads me to … [Read more...]

3 Basic Ways to Cure Emotional Depression

Some people experience at one point in their life the negative feeling of sadness and lack of fulfilment in life. Such emotion, if prolonged, can lead to depression.Depression is a negative emotion that blocks a person’s ability to enjoy and be satisfied.When a person is depressed, she lacks enthusiasm towards her day’s activity. She constantly complains on a lot of things, people or circumstances. She worries and gets anxious about the future. She regrets or misses past events.If you find yourself being trapped in negative emotions and depressions, here are some tips on how to cure your negative emotional tendencies. 1. Think more than you feel As humans, especially women, we are emotional. We tend to decide and act based on what we feel that we forget to think clearly. Our inability to think before we feel, it results for us to make unwise decisions and actions. So the next time we are trapped with negative emotion, it is best if we direct our mind to be on top of our … [Read more...]

Top 4 Unhealthy Food List

A man too busy to take care of his health is like a mechanic too busy to take care of his tools. ~ Spanish ProverbHave you ever experienced a moment where you found out that everything you know or been practicing isn't right? That doing things differently is the best course of action yet you find it hard to do so because you're comfortable doing the wrong stuff. As for me, there are couples of old and wrong beliefs, already part of my life system and habits for several years, which I discovered were not helpful for me. And one of those is my unhealthy eating habit. I realized that majority of what I was accustomed of eating and drinking was not healthy. And since I was very picky on what I eat, it is hard for me to change my unhealthy eating and drinking habits. No wonder why I used to get sick easily and I don't gain enough weight. But for the past couple of months, I was forcing myself to eat and drink healthy food and beverages. My great motivation was the baby inside my … [Read more...]