Beware: Not for the weak heart. =D
The truths on this article might hurt you a bit, but if you keep an open-mind, it can help you clear your path to success.
There are a lot of articles, books, trainings and movies that were made and published to teach us how to achieve success. But despite, we are still left wondering around unsuccessful.
In this article, instead of listing down the attributes, character and secrets of successful people, I’m going to show you the reasons why you are not and may never become successful.
Success comes three things:
How you Think + How you Feel + How You Act = Success
How You Think
1. You Don’t Know What You Want
2. You Believe That You’re Not Capable to be Successful
How You Feel
3. You Lack Fuel to Drive to Success (No Desire, No Motivation, No Time, No Money, etc.)
4. You’re Scared of a lot of Things (Fear of failure, criticism, or rejection)
5. You’re Unwilling to Learn (Especially on New Things or Weak Points)
6. You’re Too Emotional and Idealistic
(You won’t be able to start anything if you wait for things to be right and perfect.)
7. You Hate Successful People
(Talk back negative things behind other people’s successes instead of being inspired to acquire the same success)
How You Act
8. You Stick to Something That’s Getting You Nowhere
9. You Like to Settle For Less And Then Be Ungrateful (Complains Why Life is so hard and unfair)
10. You Know What You Want but You Lack FOCUS
(Prefer watching TV instead of growing yourself through learning and action.)
11. You Gaze on the Short-term and Neglect the Long-term Effect of Your Action/Inaction.
12. You Spend More Than You Earn
13. You Fight Change and Progress
14. You Quit Before You Win
15. You Don’t Value People
16. You Wait For Things to Happen Instead of Making Things Happen
17. You Let Tomorrow Do The Action (Procrastination)
For a final word, there’s a catch in this post. If you want to start bringing success into your life, do the following:
- List down the item(s) that applies to you (the way you think, feel and act);
- Remove the negative words from the item to change it into positive (E.g.: You don’t know what you want)
- Make a renewal in your life and change into the positive way.
The more negative thinking, feeling and action you can change, the better and faster you arrive to success.
Happy journey to your success! =D
