Why is everybody else so difficult?

When faced with difficult situation in life, we tend to find fault and resentment to other people.  We have numerous reasons why someone else has done things so wrong.  We blame everyone else except the person closest, that’s YOU.  And we shouldn’t deny it, for human as we are; we hate being judged as faulty.

During this time of difficulty, it may be caused by a person, a circumstance or a place, here’s some of the things you can do to handle the situation:

1. Take a deep breath.  (You may also stand up and go to the comfort room or get a drink in the nearest pantry).
2. Look at a far view or an image that can relax your eyesight and calm your emotions.
3. And the most important part is to remind yourself to stay humble enough to understand clearly the situation in general and of the other side.

Nothing beats humility of heart, for it is easier to take on the side of pride and protect yourself from being faulty.  But what good does it give you?  All but negative things like stress, pimples and worse, a ruined day and relationship.  These things don’t only make you feel bad, but makes you ugly too both inside and outside.

In each difficult situation, do not let anger and pride take on you.  Take it calmly and do not take it against you and of the other person.  If you are wrong, admit that you are wrong but never let it degrade you as a person.

If not always, most of the time, the weight of difficulty depends on how you take on it and think of it.  So why waste your time being ugly, take on the lighter side and be happy.  Dust if off and move on to more important things.